As a mother to a VERY busy little boy, I have found that boredom is a luxury that our family cannot afford. If I fail to provide him with an activity to keep him occupied, he will put his mischievous mind to work and find something to do… which usually involves climbing on, tasting, or throwing something that he shouldn’t. While my first impulse is usually to scold him for misbehaving, I have often found myself impressed by his curiosity, determination, and ingenuity. I have witnessed him discover gravity by tossing pasta high into the air and watching it crash onto the carpet. I have watched him exercise his problem solving skills as he rearranged blankets, pillows, and furniture in order to climb on top of a table to reach my can of Diet Coke. I have seen him exhibit patience, courage, and humor as he hid behind a curtain of cardigans in my pitch-dark closet waiting for me to find him so that he could pop out and say “Boo!” And as he engages in these “naughty” behaviors, I have seen a variety of looks on his face ranging from pride to wonder to sheer delight.
I have learned that for us both to get the most out of our days together, I need to train my brain to work more like his. I need to think creatively and find the excitement in the things that he does. While setting appropriate boundaries for his safety (and my sanity), I need to encourage him to explore the world around him in a way that is exciting for him. So, any time that I see him beginning to get restless, I know that it is time for us to do one of three things: 1. Make something, 2. Learn something, or 3. Go somewhere. I have learned that it really doesn’t take a lot of fancy tools or special skills to make him happy and help him grow and learn. All that it takes is for us to work together to keep our days creative, fulfilling, and active. Because sometimes, a toilet paper roll is more exciting than a $30 toy with lights and sounds.
I hope to be able to share some of our adventures with you and that you will share yours with us.
Ready? Make, Learn, Go!